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Cake day: August 28th, 2024

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  • Spring boarding off this cause I lost my therapist and insurance a month ago. I do the same shit with men, as a gay man. I’m pretty shy and I find I difficult to strike up convos with strangers, honestly keeping up a convo with most people is hard sometimes. Men can be hot and crazy and cute. Most just want sex which is a contemporary gay man’s dream but I want a relationship and deeper connection. I had a long term relationship but we ended it because we sexually weren’t compatible. I see men and I scare myself off because if I come on too strong he’ll think I’m strange. But then I see other guys prey upon these guys and they are into it. I need a good wingman to boost my confidence in situations like this. I won’t know until I try and if I get rejected then I have lost nothing and gained knowledge, honed social skills, and gave it my all. I always say this and then it’s harder to do then to say it.