The great thing about being weird is that nobody knows when you’re on drugs.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Ghosted by a guy I thought I had a strong connection with but was very physically affectionate on our first dates and suddenly changed his tone - should I follow up?
1·11 hours agoYes, unfortunately a lot of the dating game is a kind of a dance of deception. For people comfortable with that, all the flattery, romantic gestures and charm, all the promises and pillow talk is second nature and part of the dance.
For more straight shooters it can be a difficult landscape to navigate since you are relying on the prospective partner to be honest with you. Which puts us at the mercy of those who are especially crafty (or conniving, depending on how you look at it).
Silver linings, you stuck to your guns about what you were looking for in a relationship. Many people buckle under the onslaught of another’s wiles and end up regretting it. Sounds like you did right by your self and dodged a bullet in the process.
Good luck with your next search.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you think the USA's official account of 9/11 is legitimate or suspcious?
2·12 hours agoWhile there is much evidence of foreign involvement I have no doubt there was intense fuckery on the American side going on. Collusion, in fact. There’s just too many ‘coincidences’ and random things.
The official narrative is wrong and wrong on purpose. The true story will probably never be known.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•I need to know if this is real or not. Is Robert Greene a real person?
1·13 hours agoYeah, he’s a real person. He wrote the 48 Laws of Power, one on Seduction, one on Strategy. Another on careers.
If you’re willing to take all his works with a helping of salt it’s pretty entertaining.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Ghosted by a guy I thought I had a strong connection with but was very physically affectionate on our first dates and suddenly changed his tone - should I follow up?
10·13 hours agoDon’t bother, there’s nothing there to get closure on.
He wanted to screw on the first date and when that didn’t happen he immediately moved on to the next prospect. He’s not looking for anything but booty.
Don’t waste your time.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's your most common fear? Not the greatest, but the one that you face most times in a day?
2·3 days agoThat I am going to lose my fucking mind. I have untreated psychiatric issues so it’s not only possible but at some point probable. Every day feels like a roll of the dice but I white knuckle through.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What it something a parent did that damaged your relationship with them forever with no recovery.
3·3 days agoThey died. That kind of put a damper on things. Haven’t had much contact with them since.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What do you miss that's ultimately inconsequential but still deeply personal?
1·7 days agoI’ve lost so much which would be considered deeply personal that none of it matters anymore, but you know what I don’t miss? Fucking fast food. Sounds like a giant ad in here.

…I feel like that is a challenge somehow.